I decided that I will do things a little differently here. First, I'm not going to wait till I have a coherent, complete topic or opinion to blog about before I post. Also I'm not going to avoid posting if I've been drinking. And another thing, I will not inhibit myself at all. Not that I've really been inhibiting myself but sometimes I wonder. Oh, I'm also going to be referring to myself as THE HANDSOME HERMIT from now on. It has occurred to me that so many people out there are so damn ugly (on outside as well as the inside) that I really should note the difference and besides I hope not to be hapless for long so I might as well stop calling myself that anyway. However, the url will remain the same for a while as it would be a pain in the ass to move everything right now. So don't change your bookmarks.
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The Locker Room Erection Epidemic
It seems most visitors to my blog find it by searching for info about "locker room erection." It's like 5 hits for every other referring site or search. My question, what's the big deal? Is it that disturbing to sport a little wood on the way to the shower? I mean, jeez, are guys afraid that everyone else will point and shout, "Look the Gay! the Gay!"??? First, if you're a young man, you have to expect to get hard at any time. Just go with it. However if you are excited by being around other naked men, well then you simply have a preference for men. Again, just go with it. Either way there is nothing to be embarrassed of.
I on the other hand used to pray for wood when I was in a public locker room. See the Hermit is a grower not a shower. When I'm cold and unexcited, I go down to a little nub. So the few stares I got were not "Hey why the chubby?" but "aww poor guy." A slight erection would have helped, ya know, not a full up hard-on but a little blood flow for a little more girth.
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And Speaking of Cocks
I was discussing preferences for certain types of women with a few friends the other day and someone commented that I may be closed-minded or perhaps racist as I didn't include any big beautiful black women on my "wish I could have" fantasy list. Well, it's nothing like that. I just know I can't handle a big huge 250 lb body. "How do you know if you don't try" they told me. Well it's basic math and physics. It's just too much flesh for me to work through. Not that I haven't been offered. I guess they see I'm kinda tall and broad shouldered and they think well "hey, he's a big guy, he must be ready to romp" but no, sorry, it aint all that much there. But don't misunderstand, I have enough to do the job (as a bonus, I learned to use my tongue well) but for the big sistas looking to be filled to rim, it's simply not enough. It's not a racist thing or something against heavy set people. It's just what it is.
